I've been thinking about this for a few weeks, and I think I've come to my bare-bones, hands down, top three things I am looking for in a woman.
This is an important list. Over the past few years my self-worth has been so low that I would pretty much take whoever would have me. I lucked out a lot in that regard, I have dated some incredibly amazing women. but I also put myself through some unneeded stress and difficulty.
But I am valuable. Actually, I'm a damn great catch. The more I come to see that, the more I am able to attract the kind of woman that I want.
This is the kind of woman that I want:
1. Intellectually Curious.
I don't just mean smart or educated. These days a lot of people just go to college so that they can get a job. I want someone who is genuinely curious about the world. Someone who wants to understand it. I want a woman who is always learning; who can teach me; who I can teach.
2. Playful.
I want a woman that I can create fun with no matter where we are. If we are stuck at the DMV for eight hours, I want us to still have a great time just because we are together. I want a woman who does not need to be entertained, but truly creates fun. I want a woman who is down to play games, dress up, and act foolish.
3. Kind.
And not just to me either. I want someone who really roots for the underdog and has genuine compassion for those who suffer. I want someone who is patient with me and empathetic and willing to listen. I want to take care of a person like this, because I know she will not take anything for granted. She will want to take care of me, because she knows how much I will appreciate it.
Those are my top three. If I were greedy, I would add the following:
4. A little more extroverted than I am
5. Geeky about at least one of the things that I geek out over.
6. Sexually adventurous and insatiable (isn't this on everyone's list?)
7. Willing to travel the world with me
8. Not materialistic or overly concerned with money
9. Someone who challenges me to be better and do more.
10. Someone who really believes in me, validates me, and supports my dreams.
I believe that there is a woman like this in existence.
I am doing what I can to make sure I am worthy of her.
I hope I get to meet her someday.
And if she happens to have red hair and a lot of tattoos, I'm probably going to marry her on the spot.
1:37 a.m. - 2014-08-17
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